Way back when during prehistoric times, one of my best friends in high school and I were talking about what the future would hold for us one day. She happened to mention that one of her desires was to leave Alabama. Having never traveled more than 20 miles from her birthplace, she figured it was time for a change. At the time, it seemed incredulous to me that she had never crossed state lines, so I fully supported that wish.
Long story short, she never left. I believe that she had wanted to, but didn’t know how to put her plan into action. I think that there are many people like her who feel stuck and in a rut, so their solution is to do nothing. Many years later, she still hasn’t and attributes her previous lamentations to youthful flights of fancy.